Welcome to my world....here's my story that has brought me to this juncture of life.

After 15 years of marriage, a perpetually deteriorating one, I found out that my husband was cheating on me! How did I find this out? Well, as I sat at the family desktop computer, I realized that my darling husband had not signed off of his screen.  I scanned the screen to see what he had been doing and I saw that he was checking work email.  No big deal right? Well....something caught my eye and that something was an email that stated it was his company phone records.  Phone Records? But he told me that those records were only sent to his company and he had no access to them.  Well of course, being the investigator that I naturally am, I immediately began to go through the phone log.  Did I know what I was looking for? Absolutely not, but I knew that I was onto something and my window was here and now!  I quickly decided to look for any reoccurring numbers and there it was!  I looked up the area code and bam! It was a Texas number and in a city that I knew he had taken  several trips to in the past year!  I then decided that if this person was important to him that the number would be found on such days as Valentines day---BINGO, Christmas and New Years Eve----BINGO! At that point I knew that this was serious!  I went as far back as I could find in his email and started finding other Phone Logs.  I found pictures in emails to his best guy friend! One picture was of a group and my ex wrote in the email, the one in red in mine!  I looked at her and I was in disbelief.  She was a plain looking Caucasian woman!  Was he really involved with this when he had me at home!!!
After I spoke to her, yes I said spoke to her, and he and I tried to talk through it all, I decided that I could not go on with my marriage!
Hence the beginning of my journey into the world of dating!